LunaGrown can offer you some pointers on a clear path to a well-planned social gathering. We are not talking about a large reception by any means but a small social get-together. The same suggestions would also apply for a more intimate gathering.
Keep in mind that your goal is to offer tastes that complement one another, not overpower one another. It should be a thoughtful, sophisticated adventure for your palate not a college frat party for your mouth.
If your wine has a subtle blackberry flavor then it would be best paired with a jam from the berry category. If your wine has a slight hint of apple or pear, then one of these jams would best enhance that slight fragrance for an intensified flavor experience.